New Year Resolution: What Should I Lose to Walk Closer With God?

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New Year spiritual decluttering, prioritizing God and family, and resisting the “busyness” that drains us.

Discover how to overcome distractions, declutter your spiritual life, and strengthen your relationship with God through intentional focus and quiet time.

Every new year arrives with long lists of things we want to gain — success, discipline, new habits, opportunities.
But maybe the deeper spiritual question is not “What should I gain?”
But rather:

“What should I lose so I can walk closer with God?”

We live in a world overflowing with noise. Constant notifications, endless tasks, pressure to succeed, and expectations coming from every direction. These things are not always evil — many are good, useful, even valuable. But when they fill every corner of our heart, something dangerous happens:

Time with God becomes optional. Intimacy fades.
We become busy… but empty. Active… but spiritually drained.

There is a well-known saying that the enemy’s strategy is simple: keep believers busy so they have no time for God. It is often attributed to C.S. Lewis as the enemy’s strategy.

In order to drive us away from God Satan chooses to distract us with “Noise.” He knows that if we are overrun by countless distractions that we will be unable to hear the voice of God in silence.

And truly, busyness has become one of the most effective spiritual attacks of our generation.


1. What Is Stealing My Attention?

Before setting resolutions for the new year, it is wise to ask:

  • What is constantly pulling my mind away from God?
  • What fills my schedule but empties my spirit?
  • What is consuming me emotionally but producing no fruit?

These can be:

  • Social media
  • Endless entertainment
  • Overcommitment at work
  • Toxic relationships
  • Even “good things” done without God at the center

When our hearts become overcrowded, we lose the space where God whispers.


2. Spiritual Decluttering: What Should I Let Go?

Just like a home filled with unnecessary things becomes stressful, a soul filled with distractions becomes tired.

This year, ask yourself:

What should I lose?

  • Lose the habit of saying “yes” to everything
  • Lose guilt-driven commitments
  • Lose time spent comparing yourself with others
  • Lose distractions that steal your peace
  • Lose the fear of slowing down
  • Lose anything that takes you away from God’s presence

The purpose is not to punish yourself —
It is to make room for what truly matters.


3. God and Family First: A Kingdom Priority

When we declutter spiritually, space opens for what is truly important:

Make God your first priority

  • Time in prayer
  • Reading His Word
  • Resting in His presence
  • Seeking His will before making decisions

Make family your second priority

Many families are hurting because attention is scattered.
Giving intentional time to family is a form of worship — a reflection of God’s love.

The commandment is clear:

“Love the Lord your God… and love your neighbor as yourself.”
(Home begins with your closest “neighbors”: spouse, children, parents.)


4. A Simple New Year Prayer

Lord, teach me what to let go.
Remove the noise that competes for my heart.
Show me the habits I need to release,
the commitments I need to adjust,
and the distractions I need to walk away from.
Fill the empty spaces with Your presence.
This year, I want to walk closer to You
and love the people You have placed around me. Amen.


5. Final Takeaway: Less Noise, More God

This new year, do not only think about what you want to add to your life.
Think about what you must remove so that God has space to work.

Declutter your heart.
Simplify your life.
Make room for God.
Make time for family.
And you will enter the year with strength, clarity, and peace.


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New Year Resolution, Freedom

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